With profound sadness and loving hearts, we announce the passing of Barbara Milam Shaw, of Topeka, Kansas, who passed away on September 29,2026 at the age of 67.

Barbara was born on January 10,1959 to Lester Milam and Birdie Thibodeaux. Throughout her life Barabara experienced the joys and challenges that shaped her into the woman her family and friends knew and loved.

Barbara was preceded in death by her late husband Vernon Shaw, her parents Lester Milam and Birdie Thibodeaux, brother Johnny Thibodeaux, William Ralph Powitzky, Gary Wheeler, and her best friend Cheree’ Hill. She was also reunited in Heaven with two precious grandchildren who went to Heaven far too soon. Though their time on earth was brief, they held a special and forever place in Barbara’s Heart.

Left to Cherish her memories are her brothers Larry and Keith Milam and their kids. Her children are April Powitzky and Dewayne Wheeler, and Girlfriend Izzy Sanders. Granddaughter Trinity Wheeler. Grandsons Delton, Devvin, and Hades Otis Vader Wheeler. Great Grandchildren Serena Elizabeth, Noah Rae, River Fae, and Sunny Mae Wheeler. Extended Grandchildren Chris 'Shaun Williams, RJ Ashley, TayLynn and Karson Canizaro. Also, her daughters from another Mother Nicole Williams and Hanna Canizaro. Numerous extended sons. The Love she had for her family will continue through the generations.

Her Extended family and dear friends will carry her memory in their hearts. The memories of Barbara, her laughter, love, and stories – the moments shared together- will remain a lasting part of the lives of those who knew her.

Barabra’s Life was filled with people she loved deeply. She will be remembered not only for the years she lived, but for the love she gave and memories she created along the way.

Though the hearts are heavy with her passing, we can find comfort knowing that Barbara is now reuniting with Vernon and her two precious grandchildren who went before her.

Rest peacefully Barbara. You are loved; you are missed and will never be forgotten.

We Love you, Putty Tat!!